There is a meme making the rounds that has six photos in one frame, to describe a person's actions, life or existence. I thought I'd give it a twist for retread parents with embeds from YouTube.
WHAT SOCIETY THINKS I AM AND DO.
WHAT MY ADULT CHILD THAT CAUSED THIS THINKS I AM (also my Ex and Ex's family, but who's counting).
WHAT SCHOOLS AND THE DEPARTMENT OF HUMAN SERVICES THINK I AM.
WHAT IT OFTEN FEELS LIKE I AM (LOOK FOR GRANDPA).
WHAT MY GRANDCHILDREN IN MY CUSTODY SEEM TO THINK I AM AND DO (MOST OF THE TIME).
WHAT I ACTUALLY AM AND DO (MOST OF THE TIME).